Don’t Call Me ‘Honey’

Backyard Fences Were No Match for the World Peace Foundation’s Bridget Conley-Zilkic

Bridget Conley-Zilkic is research director of the World Peace Foundation, where she is currently working on the “How Mass Atrocities End” project. Before participating in a discussion of why we can’t stop genocide, she explained in the Zócalo green room why eating oatmeal is a sign of age, and why it’s not a good idea to call her “honey.”

Q:

How did you get into trouble as a kid?


A:

My parents were very young, and I had a sister who was less than two years older than me. Mostly I got into trouble when she and I roamed around the neighborhood through people’s backyards, climbing trees. She scooted across telephone wires once. Comrades in arms!


Q:

What do you eat for breakfast?


A:

Oatmeal. This is a sign of my age. I didn’t used to. Oatmeal—and like four espressos.


Q:

When did you last break a sweat?


A:

This afternoon. I went running in the neighborhoods behind the Hotel Wilshire, which are beautiful.


Q:

What’s your biggest pet peeve?


A:

People who call me “honey.”


Q:

Who or what would your mascot be?


A:

It would not be a squirrel because I hate squirrels. Some sort of flying creature. A hummingbird—so maybe I hover, not fly.


Q:

What’s your favorite plant or flower?


A:

Lavender.


Q:

How do you decompress?


A:

Usually exercise.


Q:

What’s the best gift you’ve ever given someone else?


A:

The best most recent gift was that we gave my son, who does archery, a bow for his 10th birthday.


Q:

If you could play any musical instrument, which would you choose?


A:

Guitar.


Q:

Where did you get that beautiful necklace?


A:

A small town on the coast in Croatia. We were there after visiting my husband’s family in the mountains.


*Photo by Aaron Salcido.