Born Into the Cycle

Part Three: The Men In My Mother’s Life Could Be Charming, But They Brought Trouble Of Their Own

(In the previous installment of Born Into the Cycle, Lakesha Townsend described growing up with her mother, Gracie Marshel Wilson, known as “Michelle,” in the Imperial Courts project of Watts. In this installment, Townsend describes the role of some of the men in Michelle’s life.)

One important man in my mother’s life was her boyfriend R. Lee. Whenever he came over, he’d bring us kids chips, cookies, candy, or something, and he was always nice to us, even when Michelle, our mother, wasn’t. We loved him.

When Michelle would straighten our hair, …

Born Into the Cycle, Part Two

When I Grew Up In Watts, Michelle Was No Ordinary Mother. That Was Part of the Problem.

(In the previous installment of Born Into the Cycle, Lakesha Townsend described the childhood of her mother, Gracie Marshel Wilson, known as “Michelle.” In this installment, Townsend describes her life …

Born Into the Cycle, Part One

My Grandmother's Life In Watts Was Tough. My Mother's Life Was Tougher.

Watts is the place I call home. It’s also the place I want to leave. It’s my comfort, and it’s my trap. When I was growing up, I didn’t want …

The Greatest Love

What Whitney Houston Meant to a Teen in South L.A.

One day, about 25 years ago, I was listening to the radio station KGFJ when I heard a crystal-clear, powerful voice. The music that followed, about finding the greatest love …