Who Should Put a Ring on It?
A Modest Proposal for Rethinking ‘Will You Marry Me?’—And What True Egalitarianism Might Look Like
Over 20 years ago, I covered my face with my hands and shyly told my (now) husband, “I’m moving away for graduate school and I’d love you to go with me, but I want us to be married first.” After he agreed that it seemed like a great idea, we shopped together for an engagement ring before he chose one of the two I had liked best. He offered it to me from one knee a couple of months later in a “surprise” engagement. As a wife, I tell others …
